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The Picky Eater’s Guide: How to Try New Foods and the Importance of Family-Style Eating




Navigating the world of food can be challenging, especially for picky eaters. Whether you’re a parent looking to expand your child’s palate or an adult who struggles to step outside your culinary comfort zone, trying new foods can feel like an intimidating endeavor. With a little creativity and patience, you can make the experience enjoyable and rewarding. One of the most effective strategies for this is adopting family-style eating. We utilize this approach at Palms Day School with benefits that include child-led food choices, conversation promotion, pressure reduction and a feeling a togetherness!


Use this guide to help you and your loved ones embrace new flavors and explore the world of food together.


 1. Start Small and Build Gradually


If you’re trying to introduce new foods, don’t dive in headfirst. Start with small, manageable steps. Begin by adding a new ingredient to a familiar dish. For example, if you love pasta, try incorporating a new vegetable like bell peppers or zucchini. The goal is to make the new ingredient seem less intimidating by pairing it with something you already enjoy.


 2. Involve Everyone in the Cooking Process


Cooking together can make trying new foods more appealing. When everyone in the family is involved in meal prep, it turns eating into a fun, collaborative experience. Kids are more likely to try new foods if they’ve helped make them. Choose recipes that allow for different levels of involvement, from washing vegetables to mixing ingredients. This hands-on approach can increase interest and investment in the meal.


 3. Make It a Tasting Adventure


Turn trying new foods into a game or adventure. Set up a “taste test” night where everyone tries a small sample of a new food. You can create a “tasting menu” with tiny portions of different dishes, encouraging everyone to taste and rate each one. This playful approach can make the experience less stressful and more enjoyable.


 4. Focus on Presentation


Sometimes, the way food is presented can make a big difference. Create colorful, appealing plates with a variety of textures and shapes. For instance, arranging vegetables into a fun pattern or using cookie cutters to make food shapes can make them more inviting. Visual appeal can be a powerful motivator for trying something new.


 5. Respect Individual Preferences


It’s important to remember and respect that not everyone will like every new food. Encourage trying but avoid forcing it. If someone is hesitant, allow them to have a small portion or a separate meal while still being part of the shared experience. The goal is to create positive associations with trying new foods, not to cause stress or anxiety.


 6. Introduce Family-Style Eating


Family-style eating, where dishes are placed in the center of the table for everyone to serve themselves, is a fantastic way to encourage trying new foods. Here’s why:


  1. Encourages Choice: Family-style dining allows each person to choose what they want to try. This autonomy can make people feel more comfortable experimenting with new flavors.

  2. Promotes Conversation: Sharing meals family-style often leads to more conversation and connection. Talking about the food, sharing thoughts, and discussing flavors can make the experience more engaging and less intimidating.

  3. Reduces Pressure: Serving food family-style reduces the pressure of having to eat something new if you’re not ready. People can take small portions, taste, and decide if they want more without feeling like they’re being judged.

  4. Fosters Togetherness: Sitting around the table and sharing a meal helps build family bonds. It’s not just about the food; it’s about the experience of being together and enjoying each other’s company.


 7. Be Patient and Persistent


Expanding your palate is a journey that takes time. Not every new food will be a hit right away, and that’s okay. Keep the experience positive and keep trying. Over time, tastes can change, and what seemed unappealing today might become a favorite tomorrow.


 8. Celebrate Successes


When someone tries a new food and likes it, celebrate that success! Positive reinforcement encourages more adventurous eating. Acknowledge the effort and make it a point to enjoy the progress, no matter how small or how big.


Embracing new foods and making family-style eating a part of your routine can transform mealtime with your family into an opportunity for exploration and connection. By taking small steps, involving everyone in the process, and creating a positive environment around food, you can help even the pickiest eaters become more adventurous. Always remember, the goal is to enjoy the journey, discover new flavors, and build lasting memories around the dinner table. 


If you need any ideas for some new recipes to make with your child and family, check out our Palms Day School Snack Cookbook


Bon appétit!

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